I did a 2003 engine swap on my 2002 windstar. Your gonna have to drop the subframe that the engine and transmission are housed on. There isn't enough room in the engine bay to disassemble the transmission and engine without taking them out of the vehicle.
This may seem like a big feat it I assure you that you can do this swap in 6-12 hrs depending on the tools/skillset you possess and obviously if you have all the necessary parts before you even disconnect a vacuum line.
Your going to have to detach the coolant hoses, transmission hoses, electrical connectors, brakes, vacuum lines, & w/e i left out

. Before you loosen the four subframe bolts and carefully lower the subframe onto a pallet/dolly.
Once you have the subframe on your pallet/dolly you can raise the van high enough with a cherry picker crane to pull the engine out from beneath the van.
Once you have the subframe assembly free from the van you can easily detach the transmission from it's mounts and the flexplate to torque converter nuts from the engine. Make sure you have the transmission supported with the cherry picker before loosening the mount.
The torque converter is going to be in the transmissions bellhousing and isn't attached and normally slides out. Watch out it is filled with transmission fluid.
If the torque converter looks 'burned' or scarred then you need a new one. Inspect the flex plate teeth for wear and replace accordingly.
Reassemble in reverse order. If you need more specific instructions/pictures and torque specifications let me know.