Sounds like a transmission problem:
1. Have you check the transimission oil level recently? Do it in neutral or Park, transmission & engine warmed and on level surface.
2. What color is the trans fluid - should be ruby red, if it is brownish red, it means the fluid need to be replaced but it also may mean there is an issue in the tranny causing the fluid to turn brown. From teh dipstick let a few drops of fluid drop on a white paer towel.
3.How often did you change your transmission fluid? How many miles on your vehicle.
4. The nosie up front could be the torque converter or transmission pump.
5. The delayed up shifting could mean the clutches are worn or fluid is low in the trans.
6. Is this vehicle a SUV or a Truck? |